Finding always way back to ourselves - key to have peace with hardships

      Many of us wish at a time point in our life if we could go back to where we were, if we could be who we were in the past, if our situations were as before. Even if in the past our situation was not good at all, comparing to the present situation we might sometimes wish the less-horrible ways in the past. Unfortunately, in life we often tend to compare our situations with others, our current situation with the past and also dream if we would have made concious choices, then we would have got a better future for ourselves.

We never accept the things as it is currently, because there were better choices and that might not be the one we chose. In order to live a peaceful life, to be happy in life and not to hold any guilt - we must let go off the past and do not worry about the future. Only if these littles things were easy to human brains. Some people make themselves busy with good and productive tings to letgo of the past, some consciously break their thoughts whenever they get reminded of their horrible past. Its hard to let the past go when we are still blaming ourselves for allowing ourselves into that situation, also when we are currently facing big consequesnces of our past choices or when whe keep reminded about our mistakes in the past. 

     These situations usually creates mental inbalance to us. Our feelings, happiness, guilt, sadness, ange, anxiety all comes together and breaks us into pieces. In order to avoid this we must keep ourselves above all those feelings and also above whatever was in the past or whatever could come in the future. It is important that we make ourselves free of the toxic feelings which onlz brings harm to us alone. The ever-lasting resentment will not only destroy our present but will also create hurdles for our future plans. There are people who doesn't have deeper feelings who might know thez hurt someone, but thez would still think its alright to do so as far as their happiness is considered. Keeping resentment towards these people are the worst as they don't even remember your name. Thus focusing on you alone is good for your mental health at such times. People are could be mean, although it is not fair we need to learn accept that things are as it is. Do not hope people might change. We need to change our prespective and accept the situation. We coud only get to the future with living this situation through, just keep ourselves protected from our own thoughts, that is more important. 

Who we were..and who we are

             Although genetics has many facts to show how we evolved from our ancestors and that we carry the genes passed on to us, it is interesting to see how we act like our ancestors in certain situations. This connection is more of the soul's. It is a pride to have the grandparents who were selfless and thought of their children's happiness. They were brave enough to fight for their children's better future. They came with nothing, made nothing for themselves, owned nothing and had nothing when they left. That's a life full of sacrifices. Their prayers protected their children from all the harms and their hard work supported them. They proved that money can't buy respect for a person nor the selfless act of unconditional love.

      A person who earned people's heart and respect is never forgotten in their generation. However, earning respect is not as easy as getting likes. People always run behind their happiness mostly something temporarily then they get depressed until something else catches their eyes. This kind of search for temporary happiness has no end. But if you are selflessly doing what is right, you will have your satisfaction. This kind of deed makes you a superior human and righteous. In earlier generations, people selflessly sacrificed their happiness, their needs and their lives for their future generations. It is a pride that such great people sacrificed their lives for us and we should make our lives for the betterment of future generations.

God has shown us the depth of sacrifice and of the unconditional eternal selfless love so as our ancestors, may we learn also how to share love and happiness to future generations...

Feeling Guilty

Its a Natural Emotion comes out when we hurt someone mentally or physically..and we realise that its not good to hurt anyone and we starts accepting the truth that we did a wrong thing.. We feel guilty about that... I believe that its good to feel guilty...that's the first sign that we are improving our attitudes...and we are realising our own weaknesses  and mistakes. Humans should realise their own mistakes...not only that..we should also apologise for our mistakes...there is no need to be ashamed of apologising and we should learn from that mistake... and we should add it to our experience and never let the same situation happen again...
Some people commit mistakes in their life, and they feel guilty for the mistake whole their life....its good that you don't forget the mistake, But its not a good tthing to blame your self for the mistake you have done.., you should either correct your mistake or should do some compensation to your mistake...and usually a true Apology is enough for many people to forgive you for your mistake...

     The people who feel guilty,should not be blamed further, because they understood their mistake, they admit it and feel sorry for that. These people should be treated carefully as they are highly sensitive at that time, if we start blaming them, they may not be strong enough to withstand that situation.So, we must handle them calmly and softly, we must be ready to accept their apologies, and we must forget theirs sins and we should lead them to the world of purity and happiness.
     And in case if we reject their apologies and if we blame them further,they may become even worse personality than we have seen or sometimes they may get broken to death.And if either of these happens, we will be the only one responsible for it.Our Lord Jesus has taught us many great lessons of forgiving others, even our enemies.so, we should never forget to forgive others. And we should not be late to forgive others.
Even Lord Jesus has told that "the moment someone feels guilty, then itself his mistakes are forgiven". May God Bless You All... Thank You

Come back to life

         There are some times in our lives when we get stuck in the situation.... and we see no hope...and feels like its the end of all. especially, when we lose protection, when we are completely helpless, when e are extremely weak. These situations are similar to the situation of a paralysed person... Because he is helpless and weak ... I must tell you  something that, "Failure is when we give up or lose hope or lose faith in ourselves and when we stops believing in God". We must remember that till the moment before the death we are very much Alive...And till the last moment of life we should not lose hope and accept failure .Life is full of Hope...Sometimes a tiny firefly will show you the way in your dark world. Its never late, so never ever lose hope.
                    When people are stuck in such a situation..., and feel like they are dead already ,they should encourage themselves to come back to life.. and if you know anyone lost hope with their life, you should encourage them...To an extend , we all are sensitive and that's a fact, but we all are not sensitive at the same time, we all are not weak at the same time...so, if someone is becoming weak with their situation, you will be strong enough to support them and if you do so, when you are weak ,there will be someone for your help... "You just have to be kind enough to help them".
      We feel like we are dead when we lose our precious people..., the first thought in our mind at that situation will be to end up our life...by thinking that 'why am I alive in the world where he/she is not there...' But , Its not the way to present your respect to that person...,if you really love them, You should do the good things that they wanted to do for the world and that will give them honour and they will remain in the memories of a thousand people....but, if you die, you buries, not only your memory but also theirs...
    You just have to be strong enough to hold on for a little longer, and if you believe truly, there will be a miracle ,to smile on your life...May God Bless You...Thank you..

The Book Of Life - What Our Existence Really Means ...

We are like Alphabets in the Book of Life.....we give meaning to its contents....We all are different from one another ,we speak differently,we express feeling in different way..we all are different like the Alphabets.But we combine together to make a meaning in life.There is no meaning when the alphabets are single.They have to combine by matching themselves and should make a meaningful word, and when the word combines with several other words it makes a meaningful sentence, those sentences creates many situations and contribute to a complete story. By the missing of  any of the alphabet,the story will remain incorrect and incomplete ...Don't separate the letters of life they are necessary for the completion of the story of our lives.Value each letter of the Book of Life...

    The letters may be of various shapes and various styles,But all belong to the book...All living and non-living things in the world from an atom to the most advanced organisms contribute to the Universe by playing their roles and none of the organisms have the right to destroy or disturb the other one, from amoeba to the superior beings ,there is a family hierarchy in the Bond of life...when they are at their own place,living their lives in their own ways, without disturbing or destroying other co-existing beings, they all can survive...and if the superior beings starts to destroy the inferior ones due to ego and rage...the basal part of the hierarchy will get disturbed, and by disturbing their own foundation and food chain, they are destroying their selves...they are challenging their own existence...

The Balance of the world should be maintained and all the alphabets should take their position and should get lined together as a chain, to make the Book balanced...The pages of the book accepts everything which we writes on it, it never complaints as the Nature never cries when we destroys it,But we often forget that, those are the pages on which we survive...we live..we exist...if we tear the pages from our own Book of life, we are tearing our own place...May the Nature forgive us for disturbing its balance...Thank you....

All Words Are Magical Spells

Words..., For some people its their Weapon, and for some its the shield,by which they resist and defend and protect themselves and for some,its the medicine that has the power to heal others pain...words can be Harsh,it can be Sharp, and it can also be Sweet,Soft and Gentle..

  Words are precious.., if it has a good cause... it can heal the wounds of a bleeding heart..its like when we are talking to someone we feel that they have taken away our pain...feels like when someone tells their tragic story, we feel we are far lucky than him..,and we give them hope to live forgetting the truth that before
hearing their story you we so hopeless about your own life...Words are valuable when you are all alone sitting in a dark shade tree and wondering where your life will take you to...then someone sits near to you and tells you their dreams and inspiring you by their own dreams....
Words really matters a lot...because they enters straight into heart then it reaches to your mind...Your heart feels it, your mind analyses it..
and both responds together to it....when someone attempts suicide their heart only decides it...but, if we stop them for 10minutes and talk to them with a kind and caring attitude they will get melted by the flames of your words... Use your words for good cause...not to harm others but to appreciate others...