Monday, April 4, 2011

Feeling Guilty

Its a Natural Emotion comes out when we hurt someone mentally or physically..and we realise that its not good to hurt anyone and we starts accepting the truth that we did a wrong thing.. We feel guilty about that... I believe that its good to feel guilty...that's the first sign that we are improving our attitudes...and we are realising our own weaknesses  and mistakes. Humans should realise their own mistakes...not only that..we should also apologise for our mistakes...there is no need to be ashamed of apologising and we should learn from that mistake... and we should add it to our experience and never let the same situation happen again...
Some people commit mistakes in their life, and they feel guilty for the mistake whole their life....its good that you don't forget the mistake, But its not a good tthing to blame your self for the mistake you have done.., you should either correct your mistake or should do some compensation to your mistake...and usually a true Apology is enough for many people to forgive you for your mistake...

     The people who feel guilty,should not be blamed further, because they understood their mistake, they admit it and feel sorry for that. These people should be treated carefully as they are highly sensitive at that time, if we start blaming them, they may not be strong enough to withstand that situation.So, we must handle them calmly and softly, we must be ready to accept their apologies, and we must forget theirs sins and we should lead them to the world of purity and happiness.
     And in case if we reject their apologies and if we blame them further,they may become even worse personality than we have seen or sometimes they may get broken to death.And if either of these happens, we will be the only one responsible for it.Our Lord Jesus has taught us many great lessons of forgiving others, even our enemies.so, we should never forget to forgive others. And we should not be late to forgive others.
Even Lord Jesus has told that "the moment someone feels guilty, then itself his mistakes are forgiven". May God Bless You All... Thank You

Come back to life

         There are some times in our lives when we get stuck in the situation.... and we see no hope...and feels like its the end of all. especially, when we lose protection, when we are completely helpless, when e are extremely weak. These situations are similar to the situation of a paralysed person... Because he is helpless and weak ... I must tell you  something that, "Failure is when we give up or lose hope or lose faith in ourselves and when we stops believing in God". We must remember that till the moment before the death we are very much Alive...And till the last moment of life we should not lose hope and accept failure .Life is full of Hope...Sometimes a tiny firefly will show you the way in your dark world. Its never late, so never ever lose hope.
                    When people are stuck in such a situation..., and feel like they are dead already ,they should encourage themselves to come back to life.. and if you know anyone lost hope with their life, you should encourage them...To an extend , we all are sensitive and that's a fact, but we all are not sensitive at the same time, we all are not weak at the same time...so, if someone is becoming weak with their situation, you will be strong enough to support them and if you do so, when you are weak ,there will be someone for your help... "You just have to be kind enough to help them".
      We feel like we are dead when we lose our precious people..., the first thought in our mind at that situation will be to end up our life...by thinking that 'why am I alive in the world where he/she is not there...' But , Its not the way to present your respect to that person...,if you really love them, You should do the good things that they wanted to do for the world and that will give them honour and they will remain in the memories of a thousand people....but, if you die, you buries, not only your memory but also theirs...
    You just have to be strong enough to hold on for a little longer, and if you believe truly, there will be a miracle ,to smile on your life...May God Bless You...Thank you..